Just need to be emo once a week
From observation, love is not easily found. There are 2 most common ways in which love develops between two individuals. The first is love at first sight, where they immediately have a strong attraction towards each other when they meet. This type of love is usually experienced by the younger generation. By younger generation, I mean those ranging from kindergarten to college. The second type of love is where you start loving someone after getting to know them quite well. The more serious of university students and working adults would know this type of love. They have already experienced all the ‘foolishness’ of love at first sight and are now determined to know their partners better before getting too serious. Well done to these people, you’re so fortunate. Take note that in both types of love, the individuals usually fall in love with each other at about the same time. Take note too of the uses of the word ‘usually’ in this blog post.
However, there is also the category of unrequited love. Love at first sight and love after thinking masak-masak both come under this category too. Because there are those who fall in love with someone at first sight, but the other party does not feel the same way. And the same goes for those who think masak-masak. These are the people I feel for. For from observation, I found that if you start loving a person and that person doesn’t feel the same way about you anytime soon, or even have any ‘good feel’ towards you, you might as well just give up immediately. Because from observation, 90% of the time, they will never fall in love with you. From observation, it doesn’t matter how much time, effort, kindness, thoughtfulness, or whatever you sacrifice for that person, no matter how much they think "I should love you because you treat me so good", they will never really love you. They might keep you close, lean on you when they need you, giving you hope, but do not fall for that. They don’t really do it on purpose. It is human nature. But no matter what advise I give you about how not to fall for that, you will fall for it. This, too, is human nature. But don’t blame anyone if you get hurt. Because this is life. And this is love. Yeah, you always tell yourself the same thing, to have hope. I’m not saying that it is impossible for that person to love you one fine day, for it has happened before I’m sure, just that I haven’t experienced/seen anything like that happen ever before.
Also from observation, no matter how many times you tell yourself not to make the same mistake to fall in love again, you WILL make that mistake time and time again. Human nature.
Note: Do not let this blog post make you give up. But word of advise from me, just give up. LOL. Seriously. Don’t make that person hate you. Because that is what usually happens after you hang around for too long and the person starts to realise that it is impossible for them to love you.
Note #2: Sorry for being so pessimistic today folks. But yeah, this is what I truly believe in. =) All the best in love and life. Oh and sorry to all who are still waiting.
July 25th, 2007 at 7:18 am
Assuming that the game of love matching is represented by a geometric distribution. Let N be the number of lover trials before the first success. Let P be a uniform random variable with an interval of [0,1]. Therefore the probability of success is :- P(1-P)^(N-1), where P and N are both random variables. Let P be some constant p and N be some constant n, as according to central limit theorem, the distribution of success approaches normal as n gets larger. Therefore, we can be 95% confident that there is a E(N) number of trials before we can achieve the first success. As human nature puts it, we reject the hypothesis that we will not find true love, however we do not reject the hypothesis that we will not find true love, since some people are just thick that way. The supply of lonely and desperate singles in the market are increasing each day, whereas the demand of lovers decreases each day as consumers switch to cheaper and reliable love substitutes such as golf, cars, karaoke, and food each day. By accounting convention, we usually write off those lonely singles as scrap material. This in turn leads to a waste of (somewhat)valuable resources, which is economically unfavourable, and the cost of the negative externality would be too great. Looking in a more philosophical perspective, do we exist? Does the keyboard I’m typing on exist? Does it exist only when I’m typing and disappear when I’m not? Am I really holding onto an apple as of right now? Is it really an apple? Of course, the answer is absolutely rubbish, in fact the rubbish began the very moment I started typing.
ANYWAYS.
Hm…*coughs*flirt *coughs* as *coughs* many *coughs* as *coughs* possible? *coughs*
but yea so true…mreh
July 25th, 2007 at 8:29 pm
you.are.the.best.lee.mei.ling
July 26th, 2007 at 4:23 am
lol, you are ever so welcome, =D
August 9th, 2007 at 11:58 am
i am going to faint…..haah, mei ling…sigh…
August 10th, 2007 at 9:58 am
hahahaha..hi evone!! see what i need to deal with? sigh…